3. Should I only look at the ones on the very highest numbered pages?
Since we update the web pages continuously, each of the women listed, first or last is still available and wants to hear from you. If she has been looking for awhile maybe she is selective, and is saving herself for the right guy to come alone. Perhaps she is waiting for you. New women are always added to the higher number pages. This means that ladies on the page No.1 have been members of datingasianbeauty.com longer than woman on page No.3
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4. If I place an order, how long will I get the addresses?
If you pay by check, we will inform you the addresses when we clear your check immediately. If you pay by credit, we will advice you within a working day.
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5. What about age differences?
It's hard to say exactly. If you are friendly and sincere, almost any of the women listed will correspond with you. In looking for marriage, our experience is that ladies originally from the China frequently accept men 5 to 25 years older than them. Much of this depends on you as well, as the age range is not set in stone. The most important thing is how you present yourself and how friendly and sincere you are. Even if you are not in the ideal age range that the women have written for her interested mate, you should send her a letter anyway. You have nothing to lose, and you have a potential lifetime of happiness to gain. Please do not be overly concerned about your age as being too old. The women you meet with personal introductions usually have a completely different attitude than your imagining. You may find a lady who is as many as 30 years your junior to accept you.
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6. There are many beautiful and pretty ladies in China and I'm not quite so sure what are behind those smiles.
Chinese ladies are generally caring partners, loyal companions, intelligent advisors, educated thinkers, sincere friends, devoted mothers, great cooks, and have tremendous endurance of will and strength of spirit. it is also understandable that a lady would want to improve her life standard and quality of life (general speaking, the quality of life in developed countries is still better than China). There is no substitution for finding out each others sincerity through good communication with her carried out over a number of months by email, telephone and personal visits.
However, China has been developing very quickly, people's lives have improved a lot over the last decade. They can now enjoy life more than before. So, Chinese ladies might actually want to make a life for themselves. They are very aware how loving, loyal, and appreciative a western man can be, but they might not always be going after you for a passport.
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7. Why are some of the photos poor quality?
Don't be fooled by a bad photo. We have no control over the photos submitted to us. Some of the most beautiful women on our website don't have the best photographs. Please remember that to take a photo and develop it take up a day's pay in many areas.
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8. Should I write to a lot of ladies?
The minimum number that I recommend is 10-15. You might think that you can accurately pick out 3-4 women from the photos on our website. However there is so much more to a woman than a small photo. From experience, I can tell you that if you prioritize your top 20 choices and write to all of them (and receive replies from all), every one of your priorities will change. #1 may become #20 and vice versa.
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9. What are the important Chinese customs I need to know?
Good question, an understanding of the cultural issues may help you to understand our ladies better. First of all, we want to stress that there is a great difference between the Chinese and Western cultures. Since China has been less affected by feminism than western countries, the Chinese women have different expectations on how they should be treated. They have a more traditional point of view on their relationship with men. So, dear gentlemen, don't hesitate to open doors, take her coat or assist her when she sits at the table. Be gallant and romantic, showing her with gifts and flowers, treat her with respect. Second, keep in mind the Chinese New year. This is a very important Chinese traditional holiday. Customarily, men show their love and affection by giving gifts not only to wives or girlfriends, but also to parents etc.
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10. I tried emailing a lady and the message was undeliverable.
In the case, please tell us of a problem with the members detail, we will check her original application form to see if we typed it correctly. If an error is found we will send you the correction. If no error is found, our Chinese agency will directly contact with member to verify if she no longer has access to the email. We may provide you with her update address or a free replacement address if the lady is unavailable.
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11. I'm planning a trip to China. Can you arrange for me to meet some ladies while I am there?
We don't directly organize tours or activities for visitors. In general your best approach is to choose some ladies who live in the china , write to them, and get to know them a little. Ask for their phone numbers. When you are in town, meet them individually for a cup of coffee. If there is mutual chemistry you can see them again while you are there.
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12. I am just an common man, how can i attract one of these pretty Chinese women?
Many Chinese women are disenchanted with the way men treat them here, and the western men are known for being good providers and having good hearts. Chinese women are very special, they place most of the emphasis on the man's character. What is on the inside instead of on the outside. If you are a good man inside it makes less of a difference what you look like. It is also common for a younger woman to look to an older man, as he is much wiser and established in life, and responsible for caring their wife.
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13. Can I directly call a lady when i make the first contact with her?
Not a good idea. I don't recommend contacting her by phone until you have established contact through either a letter or e-mail. The reasons for this are as follows:
- There could be a time difference between your countries.
- If her first language is not English, she could be stuck because she is too nervous.
- She does not have any preparation to talk to a stranger while you have prepared already.
Love seeking is a long and romantic process, be patient and enjoy it. You could phone her after she knows you already.
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14. May I invite my lady to the USA to see if we fit in a daily routine?
From our experience, most men go to China to see their lady after first corresponding with each other by email or phone for at least 2-3 months. By doing this, the man not only shows his sincerity, but also gets the real feeling of being together. It is usually easier for men from overseas to travel to China than for Chinese ladies to travel overseas because of visa problems. In addition, most Chinese ladies still enjoy traditional dating. They like a man to chase her to prove his interest.
In this case we also think you need to consider the lady's view point. You are asking her to give up her job, home, family, culture and food to travel to a foreign country to live with someone she has only met by email. It a big risk. And how does she know she will get on with you and will have some financial security in the new place? Of course if it doesn't bother her, it will be fine for her to see you first. But perhaps you need to be just a little cautious in this case to determine her sincerity in the relationship.
In addition, it is a great opportunity to see China and Chinese people. The place is historical, the culture is colorful and the people is very friendly. It is perfect safe to travel in China. Don't forget, you will also have a perfect service from your "personal tour guide".
After you have met the woman of your dreams in china and you want to develop a deeper relationship, you can invite her to the USA. In this case, the American INS offers a special K1 fiancee visa. This is a temporary visa, good for ninety days. You can share this time together, and get to know each other better. Before this time expires, you have to make the important decisions concerning your life together. You have two choices- either you get married or she goes back to China. After you get married and before the ninety days expires, you must show the INS the evidence of your marriage and apply for permanent residency.
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15. Why I see some of the same faces at different web sites?
If a lady is serious about finding a mate through correspondence, she will probably register with more than one service. This gives her more chances to find the right man for her.
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16. Can i get some suggestions on communication with Chinese ladies?
The followings are some good tips:
- Since there may be cultural differences between you and her, do not think she is unreasonable too quickly. It may caused by cultural issues. Try to talk to each other, which is a great way to learn and understand these differences. Remember, she needs to learn from you as much as you need to learn from her.
- Listen to her carefully and try to find out her interests, where her attention lies. She will be very impressed if you remember them and do something about them one day.
- Asian ladies are shy and are reluctant to make initiating moves. She may response you less positively than you expected, which does not imply that she is not interested in you. She may test you to find out how much you want her. Therefore if you are really interested in her, be patient and do not give up too quickly.
- If she is angry with you, she may not shout at you or tell you the reason directly. Do not feel frustrated about it. Asian ladies show their feelings in an indirect way. She would expect you to give your time to understand her by your time of being together. If you understand her more and more without her telling you all the time, it means that you love her and care about her more and more.
- Although sex is an important part of love, most of ladies want to feel that you love her first before you love her body.
- Putting yourself in her position will help you to understand her, in particular, if she is from the mainland of China because she may not have had any chance to see the world outside of China.
17. I have other questions, what should I do?
You can directly Contact us and we will be happy to answer your questions and will do so quickly, you see, we don't try to make things secret or pretend it is a BIG job, and only we can accomplish it for you, you only need to be informed and given the proper information.
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